In fact, many men have abdicated their role as leaders and have taken on a passive, even disinterested position, waiting for the woman to tell them what to do for the relationship. Either they think you are into some sort of kinky lifestyle or they think you are a mindless doormat. Some even desire it. He always felt bad about the bruises and welts he would leave but I expected it. A man who sins and who cannot take what he dishes out has no business dishing it out. Should i submit it or hold on to it until I am a little more well known?
Wives of Spanking Husbands Club » EppsNet: Notes from the Golden Orange
Love means the Golden Rule - doing unto others as you would have them do to you. I enjoyed the posts here. Duchess emerges in a red Jenny Packham smock bearing a striking resemblance Right after we ordered, I whispered into his ear that the spanking seemed like fun and we should try it.
Then resume the spanking. Fortunately or unfortunately depending on your perspective, I woke up before she could carry out that sentence. It may not work for all couples, but it certainly did for us. She prefers hand spanking but happily takes spanks from paddles, belts, flyswatters, etc. In planning for the topic, it also occurred to me that while we have talked about alternative non-physical punishments, such as corner time, we haven't talked about punishments that involve some physical pain or discomfort other than spanking, for example, figging:
How can I persuade him to take charge in our relationship? If she did that, then it would be a sign that she really cared, really got it, and really wanted to change. What happens after the attempts at discipline fail will be very different depending on the situation. It is really hot and exciting to talk with my friends or family with red bum. Maybe there are some really good women in the world who just get it, but I know I did not, I had to learn. I say all this to say that in no way am I saying that you can completely ignore your wife as a form of discipline. And women are eating it up.